How to Train Your AI Bot

Complete step-by-step guide to customizing ChatGPT and other AI tools to match your voice, style, and personality in under 10 minutes.

🎧 From Episode 2503: "Training Your Robot"

⚡ Quick Start (5 Minutes)

Follow these three steps to immediately improve your AI output:

1. Set Style

Go to ChatGPT → Settings → Customize → Add your writing style and tone

2. Ban Phrases

List 5-10 words/phrases you never want AI to use (like "circle back")

3. Feed Examples

Copy-paste 3-5 emails or messages you've written into a new conversation

Complete Training Guide

1 Access ChatGPT Customization

Navigate to ChatGPT's customization settings to set up your personal AI profile.

Steps:

  1. Open ChatGPT in your browser
  2. Click your profile icon (top right)
  3. Select "Customize ChatGPT"
  4. You'll see sections for "What would you like ChatGPT to know about you?" and "How would you like ChatGPT to respond?"

💡 Pro Tip: This customization applies to ALL new conversations. For project-specific styles, create dedicated GPT projects instead.

2 Define Your Voice & Style

Tell ChatGPT how you communicate and what makes your writing distinctive.

Copy-Paste Template:

**My Writing Style:**
- Tone: [Direct/Conversational/Formal/Casual]
- Sentence Length: [Short and punchy/Varied/Longer explanatory]
- Formality: [Very casual/Professional but approachable/Formal]
- Personality: [Straight-shooting/Warm/Analytical/Creative]

**Voice Characteristics:**
- I use contractions (don't, won't, can't)
- I prefer simple words over jargon
- I write like I talk
- I use [specific phrases you commonly use]

**What I NEVER want to see:**
- "Circle back" or "touch base"
- "Leverage" (use "use" instead)
- "At the end of the day"
- "Deep dive" or "drill down"
- "Move the needle"
- "Low-hanging fruit"
- "Synergy" or "synergize"
- "Think outside the box"
- "At the end of the day"
- "Game changer"
- Overly corporate language
- Excessive buzzwords

❌ Generic AI Voice

"We should leverage our synergies to optimize outcomes and circle back on deliverables."

✅ Your Trained Voice

"Let's use what we have and check in next week on what we promised."

3 Feed Your Writing Examples

Give ChatGPT actual samples of your writing so it can learn your patterns.

What to Include:

  • 5-10 recent emails you've written (remove sensitive info)
  • Text messages or Slack messages for casual tone
  • Any blog posts or documents you've written
  • Social media posts that represent your voice

📖 Complete Guide Available

This is a preview of our comprehensive AI training guide. The full version includes detailed steps for Microsoft Copilot, advanced techniques, common mistakes, and real examples.

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Ready to Train Your Bot?

It takes less than 10 minutes to set up and will save you hours of editing generic AI copy.

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